Samantha Jones loved sowing her wild oats even though she yearned to find a “soul mate.” If singles vow to be single, why do we continue the dance that leads smack dab in the middle of another relationship? For confirmed bachelors and bachelorettes, at what point do you say “I vow to be alone..for good?” Do we really want to be alone?
Unlike a lot of mega stars do, [lastfm]Kenny Chesney[/lastfm] hasn’t married since his divorce with Renee Zellweger. He hasn’t said he’s “confirmed” but with a mansion in Nashville, a home on an island and no deposit on a ring at Zales, he has all of the symptoms of being “confirmed.” Could it be that he just enjoys being single without the responsibilities of dealing with another person?
There is a stigma attached to single people, in that, if you’re single, there is speculation as to why. The fact is, it’s just a choice and nothing more. Married people usually get a pass. People think that if a persons married, someone else can stand them so they must be OK…it’s human nature. Perhaps K-Chez is waiting for his career to wind down or Mrs. Right hasn’t surfaced yet. The most important thing in this thing called life, is to be happy, whether together or alone, it’s a hell of a ride! Stay true to yourself.
Why do you choose to be single?